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Son of Chick Flick Guy - A guest post

11/29/2011

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The Chick Flick Guy always welcomes guest submissions, so long as they're not too long and are in the spirit of the blog, i.e. thoughtful, but lighthearted. Guest bloggers may be edited. Here's the first guest offering, from my son, Antonio, the one who unintentionally convinced me to start doing the blog that I'd merely been yakking about. 

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The Guest Blogger
As my father could tell you, I'm interested in strange things. Unconventional politics, “alternative” music, underground comics, etc. If I was going to contribute to the Chick Flick Guy, I told him, it would be with coverage of films that bring weird with their romance. If it involves non-heteronormative plot lines, great. If the characters are “quirky”, golden. And if the film is available on Netflix streaming? I'm there. (Editor's note: "non-heteronormative?" Can you tell he goes to a good college?)

This post marks my entry into blogdom (uh, that doesn't sound nearly as cool as stardom) with two films that have a pleasant mix of weirdness and cuteness.

“Happy Accidents” (2000) stars Vincent D'Onofrio and Marisa Tomei. The premise is simple, stupid even, yet effective. Tomei (as Ruby) is used to failed relationships. Her bad choices have brought her loser after loser  -- so many that her friends keep mug shots of the losers in a box of “exes.” Her experience gives her little faith in something better. Then comes along Sam (D'Onofrio), who befriends her in the park. One awkward conversation leads to another, and the couple end up enjoying each others' company. That is, when Sam isn't saying odd things and showing an irrationally extreme fear of small dogs.

His behavior, it turns out, is due to the fact that he came from 400 years in the future, or so he says. His quirkiness is totally understandable if you accept this as reality, which (of course) Ruby cannot. Here we have the conflictive drama for this “romantic dramedy”: Will Ruby believe Sam? Is he a lying weirdo like all of her other exes? If he is really from the future, why is Sam in the present now, and is he to be trusted?

Tomei's vulnerability and D'Onofrio's inscrutability combine for interesting tension, though I could never really believe Sam's actions. (But what do I know about men from the future?)

In contrast, the second film, South Korea-made “Castaway on the Moon” (2009), has a slightly less unbelievable premise yet far more believable character traits. Kim Seung Keun (Jung Jae Young) throws himself off a Seoul bridge in a debt- and heartbreak-inspired show of suicidal despair. As unbelievable as it is (considering the plot relies on his not being able to swim) he survives, waking up on an island in the middle of the river, and living out almost the entirety of the rest of the movie there. Slowly, he sheds his corporate worker identity and ekes out a living on this forgotten land, hunting, growing food, and talking to himself.

Then comes quirky, unexpected romance. Kim Jung Rye (Jung Rye Won) still lives with her parents and never leaves her room, debilitated by a facial scar that is never explained. Her only relation to the outside world is a telescope, through which she manages to spy the island recluse. Fascinated by his existence, she starts delivering bottled messages to him, to which he responds with messages in the sand.

Of course, there is no need to ruin the ending of either film, but let's just say there are lessons here to learn: True love – even if from the future – can change everything, future and past included; we should let go of the past in order to allow for new futures; and, in a world of strange people and even stranger situations, we should never give up hope for finding someone who thinks we make their life worthwhile.
   -- Antonio Roman-Alcalá
 


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David H
11/30/2011 09:21

"In a world of strange people and even stranger situations, we should never give up hope for finding someone who thinks we make their life worthwhile."

This is a beautiful statement, and a strong theme for a romantic comedy. It rings with truth.

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Pablo link
12/01/2011 14:19

Your other son would like to point out that he didn't go to any good colleges (and, in fact, dropped out of several below-par ones) but still knows what heteronormative means, and is likely to use it in conversation.

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Maureen Crawford
12/01/2011 22:30

Dear SOCFG: You have a great way with words... a lot of schwing in those lines! Makes me want to see Happy Accidents because little dogs are indeed kind of creepy. Keep writing!

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jean link
12/01/2011 23:31

Well said tones

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Jenny Allworthy link
12/02/2011 05:45

Great post! Trying to figure out why small dogs are scary in the future. I am picturing Chihuahuas as cruel dictators or gang members and giggling to myself.

Makes me want to see both films.

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Maureen Crawford
12/05/2011 19:54

Dear SOCFG: A Netflix weekend with Happy Accidents (fabulous, I love how Sam is so innocent... or is he??
) and Castaway on the Moon (uber quirky and well worth seeing) Great recommendations! I would love another Netflix on line guest post.

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